Balancing Rocks

Mel Kinross


I completed a Master’s Degree in Psychodynamic Counselling with Children and Adolescents at Birkbeck College, University of London in 2009 where I was awarded Distinction.

I am an Accredited member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists.

I have completed the first level of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy.

I have a Graduate Certificate in Group Analysis, also Distinction.

I have completed a National Centre for Eating Disorder Practitioner Skills course.


Working in Schools:

Between 2008-2021 I set up and run Counselling services in Primary and Secondary schools throughout West Sussex.

I am also involved in Staff and Student Wellbeing programme policy and delivery of support. 

I offer supervision to school staff which is aimed at helping them work with the more challenging and vulnerable students safely and therapeutically.

Working Privately:

Since the pandemic, I have offered private sessions to young people age 10+, and adults. This can be either time limited or longer term.

Working with adults:

I have worked with a large Employee Assistance Programme in which I am an Affliliate Counsellor, and in my private practice. This has involved supporting clients with both work related and personal issues using a short term solution focussed model.

University counselling:

I currently work as a Student Counsellor at a local University. I am a part of the Counselling team supporting students with academic and personal issues. 


I am DBS checked, fully insured, registered with the Information Commissioners Office and adhere to General Data Protection Regulations. 

Areas of interest

A growing area of interest for me is the neuroscience of attachment, how our early experiences of love and care form our thinking and feeling patterns throughout our life. I have found this study area very useful, and have deepened my knowledge on the effect of trauma on capacity to build relationships and learn.

Disordered eating is another area of interest for me. In order to recover from an eating disorder, or to avoid one in its early stages, sufferers need support for both their nutritional intake and their emotional resilience. For many of us, food is not just nourishment. We use it for many other reasons, and we can become healthier mentally and physically by understanding how we relate to food and how it relates to us.

What people have said...

I found pebble beach counselling a massive help to me and our family. I would highly recommend Mel

I do not think that I would have got into University without your motivation and continuous help, so I thank you for that.

Thank you for all the help. I know we didn't see each other for long but it was really good to be given the chance to speak to you.